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About geminilvr

I have been through many relationships in my life, most long term, and they have all shaped who I am in some way. I try to find humor through the pain and heartbreak and find the strength to do it all over again. My blog is sprinkled with past relationships, current status and thoughts on it all! I hope my experiences make you smile, laugh or cry along with me and relate to the complexity that is life, my life, perfectly imperfect.

Quotes and Heartache

I read these quotes today and they really hit home. It’s been a tough few days for me. I haven’t had the time or the inclination to write. As usual classes are keeping me busy, exhausting me actually, as is … Continue reading

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Stats and relationships?

via Daily Prompt: Superficial The first chapter of my survey research book had a statement in it that I wrote down on a sticky note and put on my fridge. Who would think that a book that encompasses statistics, survey … Continue reading

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Busy, busy, busy

It has been a while since I’ve written a post. My life has been incredibly busy with work and school. I’ve taken a step back as far as relationships too. I don’t have anything new happening on that front. I … Continue reading

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Protect Your Heart

Most times the second and third chances we give those who have hurt us eventually leads to more pain. Be careful who you let back into your life.

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Book Review#4 ‘The Subtle Art of NOT Giving A Fuck’ by Mark Manson

Originally posted on LIVING AND LEARNING:
Okay, let me just go straight to the point. I don’t usually go for self help books cause to me they are all the same! Smile more, love more, hate less, don’t give up,…

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Surf’s Up

via Daily Prompt: Irrelevant The past few weeks I’ve been doing a lot of self-reflection on what I want and need. I had a little time to write last weekend about how I am feeling at the moment. I wrote … Continue reading

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Sometimes

Sometimes the pain is so great, you can’t feel anything else. Sometimes you keep yourself as busy as possible, but you still can’t stop thinking about him. Sometimes you wonder not if it will ever get better, but if it … Continue reading

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Sometimes you just have to quit: How I prepared in advance for my own mental breakdown

Originally posted on Whiskar Wilde:
I’ve always been an independent person. I don’t like to ask for help. I’m slightly on the introverted side, so I prefer to work by myself. Or with one or two people I really like.…

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Taking a Break

I’m going to take a break from blogging for a bit. I need to take care of myself as there is quite a lot of negative stress in my life right now. I’ll be okay I promise, and I’ll be … Continue reading

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Reading, Writing and Statistics, Oh My!

I saw Guitar Hero again. Things are progressing slowly but really well. I am happy that we are taking it slow, I need to and so does he. I am just enjoying the time we spend together and time is … Continue reading

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