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About geminilvr

I have been through many relationships in my life, most long term, and they have all shaped who I am in some way. I try to find humor through the pain and heartbreak and find the strength to do it all over again. Navigating the dating waters in my forties isn't easy but hey what in life is? My blog is sprinkled with past relationships, current status and thoughts on it all! I hope my experiences make you smile, laugh or cry along with me and relate to the complexity that is life, my life, perfectly imperfect.

Deep sigh of relief

via Daily Prompt: Relieved I have finally reached a point in my new/old relationship where I am not worried and questioning every little thing. It is a nice place to be and it took a long time to get here. … Continue reading

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It’s my birthday!

I am a Gemini and if you know anything about Geminis we are all about wanting to be in the spotlight 🙂 so of course I had to promote my birthday today! Actually, I was never one for gifts – … Continue reading

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Turn down the negative

via Daily Prompt: Volume There was a time not so long ago that negative thoughts and negative situations were at full capacity in my heart and my head. It took time to turn down the volume and enjoy the silence … Continue reading

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My perfectly imperfect life

via Daily Prompt: Natty I took a small break from writing. I have a lot going on in my personal life and as always, my career which in and of itself involves a lot of writing as well. I now … Continue reading

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Just a sliver?

via Daily Prompt: Portion There are portions of my heart that I may not want to give out just yet. The vulnerable piece, the trusting piece, the loving piece. There was a time that I would give out those pieces … Continue reading

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How do I get over that wall?

via Daily Prompt: Catapult So as things are going better than ever in my new/old relationship how do I catapult over that wall of fear that still haunts me? My brain and heart are always in a constant battle. Brain: … Continue reading

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I Feel The Earth Move — 2 Traveling Dogs

What a beautiful post from a blog that I love to follow – our pets provide us so much comfort and love when we need it most. Their journey and the reason why they are traveling across the U.S. is … Continue reading

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Truth

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And out of darkness

via Daily Prompt: Descend Life has been going so good lately. It scares me. All that I have known the past couple of years have been some highs and very low lows. It’s downright frightening that everything has fallen into … Continue reading

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Jumping in with both eyes open

via Daily Prompt: Precipice As I have written previously, the past few weeks have brought a change in my life that has been a surprise, but a really welcome surprise. As I stand at the precipice of my new/old relationship … Continue reading

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