Break the pattern

via Daily Prompt: Pattern


It is not always easy to see someone for who they really are when you are in the throes of heartbreak. You miss them, long for them, and your heart aches. But if that person was meant to be in your life, they would be there, supporting you and loving you.

Break the pattern of giving people who don’t give a shit about you or your feelings space in your head. But most of all don’t give them space in your heart, that part of you is sacred and should only be occupied by someone who will protect it, not crush it.

It’s not easy, but when you find the person who deserves to be there, you will wonder why you rented out that space so cheaply and easily.







About geminilvr

I have been through many relationships in my life, most long term, and they have all shaped who I am in some way. I try to find humor through the pain and heartbreak and find the strength to do it all over again. My blog is sprinkled with past relationships, current status and thoughts on it all! I hope my experiences make you smile, laugh or cry along with me and relate to the complexity that is life, my life, perfectly imperfect.
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13 Responses to Break the pattern

  1. geminilvr says:

    Reblogged this on Success Inspirers World and commented:

    my thoughts on today’s daily prompt


  2. Merbear74 says:

    I really needed this today. Thank you.

    Liked by 2 people

  3. Love this. It doesn’t only apply to loves in one’s life but to anyone who takes your feelings for granted – even family.

    Liked by 2 people

  4. Ginger says:

    Well said! Get over it and move one … main thing is to spend our time and energy with those who have similar values, respect and integrity.

    Liked by 1 person

  5. You have more than a way with words, you really have a way of hitting the truth

    Liked by 1 person

  6. bklynboy59 says:

    I have been saying this for ever …AMEN!!!! you nailed it

    Liked by 1 person

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