I think one of the best lessons I have learned in the past few weeks is that I need to stop sharing every aspect of my life, particularly in my non-blogging world. When you share, a lot, people begin to form opinions about you, the person you are seeing, not seeing, what you should be doing or not doing etc. I’ve decided that my current relationship will be my own business, for now. I need to be more careful in what I choose to share. It is not because I am devaluing anyone’s advice or opinion, it is because I need to protect and preserve what I have in my own mind. And frankly, sometimes I get tired of being asked the same questions over and over.
I will still share some of my current relationship here and there, but I find that when I overshare I set myself up for failure, with the relationship. And I also poison the well too. But what will I, relationship girl, write about? Fortunately or unfortunately, I have more material than I wish. My mind is always on overdrive and I have stories to tell and I always have something to say, or in my case blog about too. I will still convey my feelings and thoughts but I will not give specifics, at least not until I am ready. And at the moment I am not ready. I need to let this one breathe and grow and hopefully sustain.