I am really bad at online dating. Not in the sense that I have a hard time meeting anyone, more so that I just can’t manage multiple sites and how they all work. When I signed up for Bumble I was so clumsy navigating it, I would accidentally swipe left when I meant right and vice versa. I didn’t even realize that there were more pictures and information on potential matches than what just popped up on the screen. Also, when I would get a match I kept forgetting to message the match for days and then Bumble would tell me I had to pay to retrieve my matches. I have since deleted my account.
On another site Plenty of Fish they have the same option. I did the same, swipe the wrong way, many times. I have texted and messaged the wrong person the wrong response as well. Never tried Tinder, don’t plan to either.
So I have put a stop to all dating sites, talking to multiple men, and going on multiple dates. I am concentrating on one guy for now. No more clumsy swiping, messaging, texting. I meet enough people in real life and in real life, I am outgoing, confident and flirty. Of course I’m still clumsy, but in a real sort of way that involves occasionally tripping, spilling or dropping things.